President let me send out a quick email just to let you guys
that I'm doing well. But I don't care about myself, I want to know how you are
doing! I know you probably aren't taking it too hard (it's been expected for a
while now) but you're still in my prayers :)
I love you so much mom, I'm sorry I can't be at home for
this time.... But again, you will be in my prayers. I love you mom ❤
Moms response email:
I’m doing OK :). Thank you for the email. I had a few more
tears than I expected. I feel for
grandma. Grandpa wasn’t doing too well for a few months now. The night
before he passed he was complaining of having a hard time breathing. Grandma
asked if he wanted to go to the hospital and he said “no he was done with
doctors”. He went to bed. The next morning grandma went to work at the temple
early and got home around 12:30 pm. She noticed there was no food out on the
counter from breakfast. She has told me for months now she hates going to check
on Dad because she doesn’t want to find him dead. She waited and Mike came over
around 2 pm to chat with her at lunch. Mom sensed that dad had passed but she
didn’t want to say anything to Mike and tell him because she didn’t want to
disturb his day. Mike left back for work. She decided before she checked on him to
read a ensign article. She finish and decided to check on him at 3:30. His arm
was off the bed and bluish in color. She touched his hand and called his name.
She knew he had passed peacefully. His eyes were shut and the covers were neatly
placed over his body. She then called Mike. He came over and called me. The police came a while after and then the
crematory person came to get him.
I am in the air plane now to go be with Mom and family and to make final
plans. Grandpa insisted on being cremated. We will have a small gathering Friday with immediate family. He has always said
he didn’t want a funeral because there was nothing good to say about him. That
is what breaks my heart the most. I pray he is happy and can help prepare
grandmas mansion in heaven. I pray grandma won’t be lonely. I will do all I can
to help her this week and will return Sunday.
I love you and always pray for you. Thank you for your sweet
email. I’m proud of my Elder cook. Talk to you soon ❤️ I love you. Mom.
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